How to Win Her Over After She has Dumped You?
Getting dumped by your girlfriend is rough on the ego. Even worse is the fact that it takes a bigger toll on your heart. You feel like you gave your relationship everything you had in you to give. Now you just want to wake up and find out that it was all a really bad dream. You want to find out that she didn’t really just dump you and that life can get back to normal for the two of you.
The problem is that normal for the two of you wasn’t working. That means that you need to redefine normal before you make the first step to try to win her over after she has dumped you.
You want to get your ex back. It isn’t that uncommon at times like these. But it’s a good idea to start trying to figure out what went wrong.
Did she state a reason for the breakup? It’s probable that she either couldn’t put her finger on one specific reason or thing you did that was ‘wrong’ she just wasn’t happy anymore. Does that sound about right?
For most women, unhappiness in relationships isn’t about not getting expensive gifts, lavish vacations, or even first class treatment. The woman in your life might like a lot of attention from you but there’s something else that she NEEDS even more than attention. It’s APPRECIATION.
She needs to be noticed by YOU.
She needs to FEEL like you notice the things she does to make your life better, more enjoyable, and easier. She needs to know that she’s making a valuable contribution to the relationship.
Today is not the 1950′s. But women are torn between believing they should be Donna Reed or June Cleaver and the fact that they can’t do it all when most families need two incomes to survive.
She needs to feel like you appreciate what she does do and how much she struggles to take care of you while meeting the other expectations and demands that are placed on her by society.
You don’t have to go out and right sonnets or songs describing your appreciation. Just thank her for cooking a great meal – even if the microwave did most of the work. Roll up your sleeves and offer to pitch in with dishes once in a while. Ask her if there is anything YOU can do for her. It’s a small thing but it will make her feel so important and cherished and even LOVED by YOU.
But that’s the easy part, right? How can you show her the new and improved YOU if she’s blocked your number, your Facebook page, and your email address?
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The Expess Feb. 9, 2011 on location at Waterfront Park, North Van. part 1